http://positiveparentingskills.com/child-behavior-problems/ Thu, 17 May 2012 04:25:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://positiveparentingskills.com/child-behavior-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-6912 Julie Thu, 01 Mar 2012 16:41:15 +0000 http://positiveparentingskills.com/?p=353#comment-6912 @<a href="#comment-6911" rel="nofollow">Adriana</a>: I agree with what you are saying - the ultimate goal is to prepare them for interruptions. The starting point is giving them a safe environment which consists partly of a structured schedule. As they start to go off "red alert" and feel safe that we as parents can take care of them, they will trust us that the disruptions are safe and will not be afraid, as you slowly introduce them (as much as we can plan disruptions) and talk through the feelings that came up afterwards. @Adriana: I agree with what you are saying – the ultimate goal is to prepare them for interruptions. The starting point is giving them a safe environment which consists partly of a structured schedule. As they start to go off “red alert” and feel safe that we as parents can take care of them, they will trust us that the disruptions are safe and will not be afraid, as you slowly introduce them (as much as we can plan disruptions) and talk through the feelings that came up afterwards.

]]> http://positiveparentingskills.com/child-behavior-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-6911 Adriana Thu, 01 Mar 2012 13:35:24 +0000 http://positiveparentingskills.com/?p=353#comment-6911 Let me understand this, your children mishave, after Sarah gone home. I think, the problem is that they are not prepare for interruptions. They do not need a structure schedule. What they need is tolerance and patience. Things are not going to come out always in the way they are expected. Let me understand this, your children mishave, after Sarah gone home. I think, the problem is that they are not prepare for interruptions. They do not need a structure schedule. What they need is tolerance and patience. Things are not going to come out always in the way they are expected.

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