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What exactly do you learn from Total Transformation? In other words, how does the program work?

If you think that you’ll change your kid’s behaviors without changing your own behavior, then whatever you do, don’t buy Total Transformation. As we go through the DVD’s and CD’s, it becomes abundantly clear that James Lehman is out to teach us as parents to change how we deal with our children, which in turn will make the child change.

Mr. Lehman states over and over that the main reason that kids are disobedient, out-of-control, and abusive is they don’t have problem solving skills, and acting out is the way they get through life, instead of learning to problem solve. Mr. Lehman shows us many different skills we can start using as parents in order to help our kids learn, but you’ve got to want to work at it! Nothing happens overnight!

There are many different permissive styles that parents have in raising their children, and most of them are ineffective. Some of these include the martyr, the screamer, bottomless pockets, over-negotiator, and the perfectionist. These are the roles that we as parents need to change if we’re going to help our kid to problem solve, and get our house back to normal. Mr. Lehman goes over each of these roles and cures for them in the Total Transformation, and I’m going to touch on most if not all of them in my reviews of the program.

Here’s the truth – you probably need to change your behavior. You can’t expect to fix your child if you’re not willing to learn and grow yourself. If that sounds like something you won’t mind doing, then Total Transformation might be for you.

Next up – The Total Transformation Workbook.

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total-transformation-product-pictureHow much does Total Transformation cost?

Total Transformation is fairly inexpensive when you  compare the price to individual or family counseling (not to say that counseling isn’t an excellent route to go – we’ve been to counseling on and off over the years, and we sincerely believe that without it, we wouldn’t be where we are as a family). However, many people just don’t want to go to counseling, or they might not be able to afford it.

For this reason, you might really like Total Transformation. You can do it at home on your own time frame, and you only pay a small up-front fee for shipping and handling. Best of all, for a limited time, you can get it for free. Just order and complete and return the enclosed Feedback Survey.   For complete details about the program and the price, you can click here.

What’s included in the package?

The Total Transformation program includes the following:

  • Jump Start DVD
  • Parents Workshop Question and Answer DVD with
  • 7 audio CD lessons
  • A 118 page Workbook
  • 800 support access
  • A Free Bonus CD – How to Turn Around Your Child’s Attitude in One Minute or Less, FREE just for trying the program.

All of this is included in a nice portfolio, which would look just fine sitting on a book shelf in your house. It’s very professionally done.

Next up – What do you learn from the Total Transformation?

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What Is The Total Transformation?

The Total Transformation is a parenting program designed for parents of difficult children – defiant, out-of-control, abusive, etc. It is for parents of kids with all kinds of behavioral problems ranging from ADD and ADHD to ODD, Autism, and bipolar disorder. The main jist of the Total Transformation is that defiant, out-of-control children are that way because they don’t know how to problem solve: when they act out, they get their way and they don’t have to face their problems. As parents, our job is to train the up, and give them the skills they need to solve their own problems. That’s what Total Transformation does.

Who Created The Total Transformation?

The creator of the Total Transformation is James Lehman, a therapist with a Masters Degree in Social Work. For three decades James Lehman has worked with troubled teens, younger children with behavior problems, families and professionals who live with, educate, treat and assist in managing them. In public schools, residential treatment centers, private schools, and numerous outpatient and inpatient settings, James has developed an approach to managing children and adolescents which challenges them to learn to solve social problems without hiding behind a facade of disrespectful, obnoxious, or abusive behavior.

Next post – How much does Total Transformation cost, and what’s included?

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Disclosure: Affiliate links may be used within this post for products I recommend. They in no way affect my judgment of said products, nor do they affect the price of the product.